Always struggled with getting abs to show. I know I'm big and decently strong but used to be very self conscious about it and still am but not as much. I saw a strong man competition and they interviewed one of the contestants and asked about abs. He said, "it just means they are hungry all the time. I'm strong and not hungry". Lol
Being 6'4", it takes a lot more muscle to "look big" compared to a smaller frame. I also accepted the fact that I'm more interested in mass over being ripped for the time being.
Writing this in the parking lot at the gym. Gonna be a arm day. Ate plenty of food throughout the day, did as little as possible at work, and it's my 30th B Day today. Gym, dinner, Top Gun 2, fun with the Mrs.